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29 April 2026

Estate mediation: moving forward together

By Stephanie Hasselaar-Veltkamp

In practice, we often see tensions or disputes arise during the settlement of an estate. This is entirely understandable: in addition to legal aspects, family relationships and expectations also play a role.

A death and the settlement of an estate involve a range of emotions and interests. When a conflict arises regarding the distribution or handling of the estate, estate mediation can help the parties reach agreements.

What is estate mediation?

Estate mediation is a form of dispute resolution in which an independent, neutral mediator assists the parties in finding a solution. An estate mediator is a specialist mediator with expertise in matters relating to death and inheritance, such as disputes over the interpretation of a will or the division of assets.

Estate mediation can also take place prior to death. For example, it may involve informing all heirs in advance and making arrangements to help prevent disputes after death.

The aim of estate mediation is to identify and address family dynamics, communication issues and underlying tensions, so that the legal aspects can be discussed constructively and agreements can be reached.

When is mediation appropriate?

Mediation is particularly suitable when:

  • the relationship between the parties should be preserved;
  • there are communication problems or a lack of trust;
  • the parties are unable to resolve matters themselves but are willing to engage in dialogue;
  • there is a wish for a faster resolution than waiting for court proceedings;
  • the parties wish to retain control over the outcome (party autonomy is key).

Mediation can also be valuable at an early stage to prevent escalation.

The benefits

The main advantage of estate mediation is that it allows for tailored solutions. Not only are the legal aspects addressed, but also the emotional aspects of death and inheritance. This is important, as emotions often play a significant role in such disputes.

Conclusion

An inheritance does not have to be a breaking point. With the right guidance, those involved can re-engage in dialogue and work together towards solutions that reflect everyone’s interests.

Contact

Are you unsure whether estate mediation is suitable in your situation? An initial exploratory meeting can often provide valuable clarity. Please feel free to contact us.

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